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Mind Break

So things have been beyond rough.  In the forefront is my pas Alzheimers. He fell. Landed in hospital. They are keeping him until he gets a home. They move him twice because of Covid cases. He is being sent back to a permanent spot.  This has been the last 8 weeks.  My mother ( who I truly believe has dementia ) is 78. She has anger issues. Loads. Venting all over. Immediately puts house up for sale and gets rid of his stuff without talking to her kids. Control issues as well...add manipulative and lies  etc.   Problems. Big problems between her and I. Lucky me, I am the only child local. At 50 I have lived a lifetime of this type of behavior from her. I try to set boundaries and she steamrolls over them. Now I am getting angry. I am also clearly afraid of her reactions.  This week was brutal. I phone blocked her but she could leave a message...so I took voicemail off...she was getting a busy signal and prepated to come over when I had decided I was ok to call her. Again the barrage ca