Fragmented Holiday Season

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It's that time of year! The trees are going up with bows and bells. Lights aglow all about. Greetings in the spirit of Christmas passed around.  

Things to do. People to see. Busy busy busy....

It's been a year since we lost dad /pa and it feels fresh. We want to feel the Spirit..we wish to make a Christmas.  

Being fragments, living D.I.D, means several agendas coinciding uncomfortably. Businesses means dissociation time. Lost moments, hours..for me a big blank.

Things are getting done one part of me or another. 

Lily has been baking and wrapping. Cleaning etc. As a mother figure would.  
The tree is up thanks to Maddy. Wee helped decorate. 

I did the bows for the tree and got gifts. I have also baked and cleaned etc. 

Team effort. It's for my ma and a friend and us. 


We are missing pa badly and there are times of just being down and 'off'. The mind has to slow. The body is tired. Emotions run high. Time out is needed. 

Then we are back at it. Fragmented and getting through the Holiday Season. 

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